Saturday, June 28, 2008

What's on my iPod - New(ish) Pop Version

I don't want to detract from the excellent last two posts (Lily crawling and Scrambled Frog Tales) but I've been meaning to write a post with some of the songs I currently really enjoy. Again, the ones that I will include in this list are mainly new(er) songs I've discovered and don't necessarily represent my all-time favorite songs - these are just some of the ones I've really been enjoying recently (I'm keeping this in the realm of pop music). I am leaving out quite a few songs, of course, and there aren't many "older" songs (or classical or even cross-over classical) on this list but I just wanted to provide a brief list of some of what I'm listening to at present. I also left off some of the "heavier" songs (esp. ones by Muse). I like all the songs for different reasons - some of them are just fun; some have really nice lyrics; some are pretty.

The list is set up as song: album: artist.
  • Hang On: Ganging Up On the Sun: Guster
  • The Captain: Ganging Up On the Sun: Guster
  • Lightning Rod: Ganging Up On the Sun: Guster
  • Amsterdam: Keep It Together: Guster
  • Careful: Keep It Together: Guster
  • Come Downstairs and Say Hello: Keep It Together: Guster
  • Two at a Time: Keep It Together: Guster
  • Apocalypse Please: Absolution: Muse
  • Starlight: Black Holes and Revelations: Muse
  • Invincible: Black Holes and Revelations: Muse
  • Bliss: Origin of Symmetry: Muse
  • Unintended: Showbiz: Muse
  • I Lived On The Moon: Tales and Dreams: Kwoon (this one has one of the best music videos ever - it's odd but really cool. The music video is available freely online.)
  • Tilting the Windmills: All the Color Green: Peter Breinholt
  • Queen Ole: All the Color Green: Peter Breinholt
  • You Are Home: All the Color Green: Peter Breinholt
  • Jerusalem: Youth: Matisyahu
  • What I'm Fighting For: Youth: Matisyahu
  • 1000 Miles: Audio Daydream: Blake Lewis
  • Happy: Brandi Carlile: Brandi Carlile
  • Someday Soon: Drastic Fantastic: KT Tunstall
  • Apologize: Dreaming Out Loud: OneRepublic
  • Come Home: Dreaming Out Loud: OneRepublic
  • Apparition: Keep Them Confused: No Use For A Name
  • Grace Kelly: Life in Cartoon Motion: Mika
  • Home (by Marc Broussard): Nonstop: BYU Vocal Point
  • Dear Bobbie: Paper Walls: Yellowcard
  • Shadows and Regrets: Paper Walls: Yellowcard
  • Soul Meets Body: Plans: Death Cab For Cutie
  • I Will Follow You Into the Dark: Plans: Death Cab For Cutie
  • The Luckiest: Rockin' the Suburbs: Ben Folds
  • Greensleeves: Shadow of the Moon: Blackmore's Night
  • 1000X: Simplify: Ryan Shupe & The Rubberband
  • Have You Ever: The Story: Brandi Carlile
  • Downpour: The Story: Brandi Carlile
  • Lucky (feat. Colbie Callait): We Sing, We Dance, We Steal Things: Jason Mraz
  • Details in the Fabric (feat. Jim Morrison): We Sing, We Dance, We Steal Things: Jason Mraz (note: this song needs editing - cut off the first and last bits)

Scrambled Frog Tales

A few years ago Kristi, my sister Becky and her husband Paul, and I made this little film. We grew up making random movies over the years. This is the latest one we've created. It has no script, no fancy camera work, no directing, and no real acting but it's kind-of fun. I'll apologize in advance for the quality of the movie and quality of the upload. :)


Friday, June 27, 2008

Lily Crawls!

Lily is officially crawling! She's been really close for a while and has been able to scoot around some but tonight she got up on her hands and knees and took off. Now she's going to get into everything. Anwyn always just ignored most things - we really didn't have to baby-proof with her. Lily is much more interested in chewing on cables and toys and things like that.


Here are a couple photos from the other day of Lily on her hands and knees.


Monday, June 23, 2008

The Joy of the Unexpected

One of the great things about having a 3 year old are the surprises we receive. For instance, yesterday Kristi went to open our downstairs bathroom door last night but discovered it was locked. Anwyn had locked the door then shut it. The door knob takes a key so we tried all the ones we had around and nothing worked. "Great," we said. So I got a hammer and screwdriver and knocked the hinge pins out to try and take the door off. I realized that that wouldn't work because of the design of the hinges - nothing looked like it was going to work. I wasn't sure where my lockpick was and we didn't want to have to call a locksmith. I tried sticking a flat-head screwdriver against the catch while trying to scoot it back in the door - that worked! Yep, 3 year olds sure are good at surprising us. Thankfully as parents we're usually smart or creative enough to cope with the surprises.

Thursday, June 19, 2008

Stranded in Atlanta and on to Cymru

The following post is a write-up of my trip to Wales in September 2007 to attended a conference. It was quite the experience so I wrote up this account of my journey.

Stranded in Atlanta and on to Cymru

The date was August 31, 2007. The day began peacefully in Gainesville, FL. After a paced morning of packing and double checking my packing list, we (Kristi, Anwyn, and I) loaded our car and headed to pick up Sandra, my fellow student, aeronautical adventurer, and lab mate. We made our way through the traffic in Gainesville and on our way to Jacksonville. After a relatively uneventful drive interspersed with the sky's shedding of many tears for our departure as well as exuberant choruses from a 2 2/3 year old of great classical music by one of the Masters, namely Mozart's Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star (words by someone else) as well as other songs by less well-known composers, we reached the airport. After a quick goodbye to Kristi and Anwyn I made my way into the airport. It was the beginning of a saga; none of my most sagacious predictions could have prepared me for it.
Our already changed (we were originally scheduled to be on an earlier flight but were changed to a later one by Delta a month or so ago) flight was delayed by 25 minutes. I boarded the plane after walking uneventfully through security – sans shoes, belt, and dignity. Once on board, however, it began to rain, really rain, with lightning striking close by. The storm delayed us for at least another 20 minutes. After a short hour-long flight to Atlanta we landed. We weren't on the ground until 10 minutes after our connecting flight to Paris was supposed to leave. Hoping against hope that we could make it on another flight to Paris that was scheduled to leave within the next few minutes, we travelled across the Atlanta airport (literally to the other side of the massive airport) to get to the international terminal. By the time we got there both Paris flights were long gone.
We had a long discussion with a Delta representative, who searched to try to get us to Paris in time for our flight to Cardiff but was unsuccessful in finding openings. We agreed to chance getting on a late flight to Paris by waiting standby. If we were successful getting on we would then fly to Amsterdam then on to Cardiff. Of course, the flight to Paris was delayed for 1.5 hours so we had to wait and wait and read. A Delta/Air France representative said over the intercom, much to the chagrin of the majority of the people waiting standby, "We're sorry, this flight is completely full." Back we rushed to the Delta service desk to try and get on another flight.
"All flights out of the U.S. to Europe are full. We're sorry, here's a T-shirt." Okay, I made up the part about the T-shirt but in retrospect, it would have been nice to have at the very least a lousy T-shirt. "We can get you to Cardiff on Monday," the representative continued.
"We have to be in Cardiff before Monday; we have a class/conference we're attending and need to be there. How about London, can you at least get us to London before Monday?"
"We can get you to London via Germany and Belgium by late Sunday afternoon [London is 2-4 hours by train, depending on transfers and waiting, from Cardiff]."
"Is there any other way to get us there sooner?"
"No."
"Ok, we'll take it."
We each received a voucher for a hotel room and 3 meal vouchers, good at the airport, since the flight to Frankfurt wasn't leaving until late Saturday afternoon; It was around midnight. We worked our way to ground transportation to ride the shuttle to the hotel. After waiting 30 minutes Sandra got through to the hotel – it was completely full. So much for our voucher. Now we got to wait in another line to try and get a voucher to a different hotel. The only problem was there were 250-300 people in line ahead of us.
"We have no more hotels available. All of our hotels are completely full. Come back at 5:15 am to check in. Sorry, we can't help you; here's a meal voucher if you want one," the Delta representative told the tired and huddled masses. This was at about 1:00 am. My spirits were high but my companion's were wavering. "Hmm, I wonder how comfortable that tile floor over there is?"
I continued my account at 7:50 Saturday morning, still in the Atlanta airport. By that time I had had about an hour of sleep (split between two different times of "going to bed"). [The following events took place between 1 am and 5:15 am]. The floor was too hard and the airport too noisy to get any more sleep. Between the music blaring over the speakers – interspersed with TSA announcements – the powered floor cleaning equipment, the construction noises "brrrrrr-tat tat tat tat" "thunk thunk thunk", and the flashing fire alarm lights (thankfully without the audible alarm) useful sleep was nearly impossible. It was also really cold under the A.C. vents that seemed to blow on every square inch of carpeted areas (and uncarpeted for that matter). I ended up walking around a lot. After one of my attempts at sleep I got up and realized that an area of the floor on which I was lying was wet (hopefully as a result of cleaning or even just spilled water), which resulted in the side of one of my jeans being wet and stained.
After some more wandering and waiting, it was finally 5:15 am and time to talk to the airline representatives again. The Delta lady looked at our itineraries. Apparently my trip according to the Delta computer ended in Brussels – the last leg to London hadn't been entered. That was nice to find out in Atlanta and not Brussels. They still couldn't get us directly into Cardiff in time for our conference but the representative was able to get us on a direct flight to London, which got in on Sunday morning. Things were looking a little better; although, we still had to pay for train tickets to Cardiff from London. The woman reserved two hotel rooms for us so we could spend the day there instead of the airport – our flight wasn't supposed to leave until 5:30 pm.
We caught a shuttle to the hotel and went to check in. "That will be $75 each."
"We have vouchers from Delta."
"We don't accept vouchers. You're getting this room for half-price."
"No thanks."
"You can have some of our breakfast if you want."
So we went back to the airport to wait some more. It certainly had been an interesting time so far. We went to the airport Atrium to find a place to rest. I managed to amass a total of nearly 2 hours of sleep in a chair in the Atrium. The room is beautiful but not very comfortable. To pass the time I read (and read). At 11:30 am we checked in for our 5:30 flight. We breezed through security and headed by train to concourse E. It was nice to have a change of scenery. We wandered around for a while and looked at a nice little exhibit about MLK. Then we got lunch – I had Chinese. At 5:00 pm we started the boarding process. I had a slight lack-of-sleep headache but wasn't much worse than that for wear.
The flight to London – Gatwick was nice. We were served dinner & breakfast and could choose from a number of movies or TV shows or games to watch or play. I slept for almost two hours. We were on a 767-400ER and flew up the East coast then over to London. We landed at Gatwick at about 7 am London time, waited in line to get our passports stamped (the long queue was organized well and moved fairly quickly), then went and got our luggage after purchasing a train ticket to Cardiff (cost 55 GBP). We breezed through customs and were on our way to the train. We left from Platform 3 (I looked around for a 9 ¾ but they didn't have one at the Gatwick station) to Reading. We passed through beautiful farm country and saw sheep, horses, corn, and other crops. The little towns we pass through are bucolic and beautiful. Our stops were: Redhill, Reigate, Dorking, Deepdene, Dorking West, Gomshall, Chillworth, Guildford, North Camp, Farnborough North, Blackwater, Sandhurst, Workingham, and Reading. At Reading we transferred onto a train to Carmarthen (with a stop at Cardiff Central – our destination). It was interesting being on the trains and having a man come around and ask for your tickets; I've never had that experience before. We passed fields with hay rolled into large bales. We passed the occasional herds of languid cows. Picturesque country homes stood tall amid England's pleasant pastures and clouded hills. After Reading, the train stopped at Swindon, Bristol Parkway, Newport, and Cardiff Central.
On the train, when we passed another train going the opposite way, there would be an immense pressure built up between the two trains, which were separated by only a couple feet. There would be a loud whoosh with the pressure; anyway, it was interesting. The same thing would happen in tunnels – we went through a number of them, some of them quite long – so I'd need to "pop" my ears to equalize the pressure.
[Narrative continued at 9 PM Sunday, 2 September 2007]. We arrived at Cardiff Central (on Sunday morning), got off the train, & started figuring out where to go. I withdrew some GBP from an ATM. We talked with a nice station worker who showed us where the right bus was but it wasn't coming for 45 minutes. We decided to take a taxi. Our cab driver took a round-about trip to our destination because of construction and traffic. It actually is not terribly far from Cardiff Central to the university campus where we were staying (we later walked the distance) but it would have been a long hike with our luggage.
We checked into our rooms and headed on up to the 3rd floor, where we were staying. The flats where we stayed were up a somewhat narrow and creaky set of stairs (not bad at all, I'm taking a bit of literary license). 8 flats/closet-rooms shared a common kitchen area but each had its own bathroom, including diminutive shower. The rooms were clean and cheap (only 20 GBP per night), which is the most important thing.
After taking my first shower and putting on my first change of clothes since Friday, I went out to take a few pictures and video. I called home using a pre-paid card I had purchased before leaving (got a nice rate on that). The building where I was staying had a pay phone downstairs but the card I purchased had a toll-free number to call in the UK, so I was able to make all my calls on pay phones. It was really nice to talk to Kristi and Anwyn. With the 5 hour time difference, it was only 9:45 AM in Gainesville but was 2:45 PM in Cardiff.
Sandra and I walked around the city for a little while. We saw some of campus. We also saw the lovely Alexandra Gardens, which is a large park with beautiful red flowers and various war memorials. We then walked down to the National Museum and Gallery of Wales. We didn't have much time there because it was closing soon. We only had time to see the art gallery. Most of the art was donated by two sisters who acquired it in the early 1900s. There were a lot of Monet paintings – they really are beautiful. We saw two Renoir paintings, including his very famous La Parisienne (also called The Blue Lady). We saw Van Gogh's Rain-Auvers as well as works by Manet and Cezanne. We also saw some statues by Rodin. All in all, it was a wonderful collection of beautiful artwork. There was one fantastic Renaissance painting (Virgin and Child with a Pomegranate by a follower of Botticelli, painted in about 1500) that I particularly liked. The colors were rich and the detail was amazing. It looked really beautiful up close. I also liked all the Impressionist works. It was neat to look at them up close and see the bright blobs of colors, then walk slowly backwards until the forms in the paintings took shape – lilies on a pond, a castle, or trees. We unfortunately did not have time to see more of the museum.
After walking by a few government buildings we walked to City Centre. There were a lot of people milling about on this Sunday evening. We managed to mostly avoid an outdoor concert where a cross-dressing man sang out-of-tune 80s songs. I got away about as fast as I could (more for the assault on my ears by his off-key notes than his cross-dressing). There were hundreds of shops all over the place, but most of them were closed or about to close. We walked quite a distance, looking at some of the sights of Cardiff, including the exterior of Cardiff Castle. We finally found an Italian restaurant at which we ate dinner. As we walked around, it rained off and on – the rain fell softly, like a mist, most of the time. The sky was cloudy the first could days we were in Cardiff but clear after that. It was much cooler than Gainesville and actually felt like Fall (although it would warm up to about 70+ degrees Fahrenheit the rest of the week). The food I had was good – I had a pizza – but it was fairly pricey (about 8 GPB). After dinner we walked home, which took about 20 minutes (I had to walk more slowly than I normally would have walked because Sandra doesn't walk as quickly as I do).
I went out exploring a bit after dinner to try to find an alarm clock – I had not brought one and I didn't have a watch or any other way to tell time. I never did find one (outside of an airport) on my trip and so I made do without any way to keep track of time (Sandra had an alarm on her phone and would knock on my door in the morning to wake me up). I wandered around for a little while and eventually found a gas station. I purchased some food for breakfast. Gas in Cardiff comes out to be about $5.00 a gallon. After I walked home via a roundabout way, I wrote a little (of this adventure) and fell asleep.
I got up around 6:30 AM, got ready and went to the conference at 8 AM. We waited for a few minutes while the organizers got everything ready for registration. I received my name tag, my course packet (about 360 pages long), a bag, and other stuff. We went to a lecture, had a break, went to a practical (computer) session, had lunch (they ran out of food before we got down to lunch but they ordered more so I had some lunch), went to another lecture, had a break, went to another practical session, then went to a "drinks and nibbles" opening reception. The food was okay. Everything we had for lunches was served cold (sandwiches, chicken, pizza, etc.). After the dinner, we went to the Lidl Supermarket around the corner and purchased food for breakfasts. After shopping I called home then went back to my room.
Tuesday was probably our most fun day. The lectures and classes were all about fMRI (which we don't do in our lab) so after attending the morning lecture and practical and lunch, Sandra and I left to see more of the city. We walked down to Cardiff Castle, a 20 minute walk from the Psychology Building. The castle grounds are quite large, with a tall wall around the whole thing. We were able to get the student discount for the tour, which saved us $3. On the castle grounds there were old Roman walls, and old Norman keep, and the big house (mostly built in the 1800s). The castle originally was a Roman fort, built around 100 AD. Over the years the area was built up, with the Normans raising the keep mound around 1100 AD and building a wooden keep there. A short time later, the keep was constructed of stone. The rest of the castle grounds were built up over the years, with a lot of the restoration done in the 1800s.
More can be read here: http://www.cardiffcastle.com/
We were unable to take pictures on the tour of the inside of the house. The decorations were amazing and beautiful. Our tour lasted about 45 minutes. I really liked the Children's Room and the Library. After the tour we were able to climb up to the keep and on the keep (up narrow spiral staircases). The keep isn't very big but could house 500 people or so in a battle.
After the castle we walked next door to Bute Park (named for the Bute family who owned the castle in the 1700s – 1900s). We didn't really see much of the park (it's huge). We then walked over by the Millennium Stadium, Cardiff's rugby and football (soccer) stadium. It is huge (seats 75,000). A hawk is kept there to keep away pigeons and seagulls. We continued walking on to Cardiff Central and caught a bus (Route 8) down to Mermaid Quay (Cardiff Bay). We saw the impressive and beautiful Millennium Centre, Cardiff's big theater. We also saw a plaque in honor of Rhold Dahl, who was born in Cardiff. We looked around at places to eat. The area of Cardiff is being built up as an upscale shopping and eating center. We decided to get fish and chips at a restaurant. It had some really good cod. The chips would have been better with ketchup (I tried some vinegar on them). In general, food in Cardiff is 1.5 – 2 times more expensive than food in average U.S. cities. This is partially due to the weak dollar. After dinner we caught a bus back to Central Station and walked home.
One thing I noticed is how many different accents there are spoken in Cardiff. Some people barely have accents and others sound as if they are speaking a foreign language (no they weren't speaking Welsh). Here are some of the word differences I noticed. Elevators are called lifts. You have litter and rubbish bins. Renting a place is called letting. There were other differences too.
Wednesday was more of the same with classes. On Thursday I started feeling sick and couldn't make it through all the classes that day; I left after lunch and went back to my room to sleep. After a few hours of sleep I got up to go find some dinner and buy a couple gifts. I bought Kristi a silver necklace. Anwyn got a book about a princess who became a knight. I also purchased a little Cardiff magnet for our fridge and a really cute little sheep and dragons tic-tac-toe game. For dinner I purchased a chicken pasty at a Cornish Bakehouse with "Award Winning Cornish Pasties" – the food was good. On Thursday I really missed being home, especially as it was getting closer to me going home.
Here are some of my observations from Wales (this paragraph is almost like a list so I've expended little effort at intra-paragraph flow): a lot of people smoke (especially young people) – a lot more than in the U.S. It's hard to walk outside without having to walk through clouds of smoke at some point. They use a lot of coins for money in the UK – 1 pence, 2 pence, 5 pence, 20 pence, 50 pence, 1 pound, and 2 pound. I never was given any bills as change. A lot of people walk and bike around town in Cardiff. There are also a lot of trains and busses. The cars are smaller on average and I never got used to them driving on the other side of the roads. Cars also generally do not stop for pedestrians, if they can help it so you have to keep your eyes open. Also, there are no road signs or speed limit signs posted anywhere. Well, I saw one or two speed limit signs (on little off streets) but don't remember ever seeing an actual road sign. Cardiff isn't the prettiest city but it is still beautiful. It used to be a big coal mining/shipping town but it's being renovated to look nicer. I haven't noticed a lot of "bad teeth." I ate a Mr. Kipling Fruit Flapjack – a processed granola-bar like food. Every electrical outlet here has its own power switch, so they can be turned on and off individually. Shops usually close by 5 or 6 PM. I don't know when people do their shopping but the mall is all closed down by 6 PM. The only stores that are open are little convenience stores. Restaurants are open at night but nothing else. A lot of people sit around drinking beer in Cardiff at night. There are pubs on every corner. There are a lot of impressive cathedrals all over town. Some toilet paper comes as separate tissues, like Kleenexes but thicker.
There were a couple times when being in Wales was very emotional for me because I was in the land where some of my ancestors were from and lived. Cardiff is in Glamorgan county, which is named after a Morgan family. I don't know if we come from the same Morgan family but it's a possibility.
One day at lunch I was sitting and eating my food when I heard a girl talking. "She has an American accent! She sounds like me," I thought. It was funny to be able to hear an American accent.
[Narrative continued at 8 PM on Sat, 8 September 2007]. I am sitting in Atlanta – fancy that – as we wait to board the plane (we leave in a couple hours). This morning I awoke at 3:30 Cardiff time (10:30 PM Gainesville time). I didn't know what time it was so I showered, got dressed, ate, then left to go find a clock and see what time it was (I didn't have an alarm clock or a watch). I walked to the Cathays train station down the road (5 minutes away) and saw that it was 4:20 AM. So I walked back to my room and tried to sleep a little more. Our taxi was picking us up at 6 AM so I managed about another hour of sleep. We got on the taxi and headed to the airport, about 12 miles away. The roads in Cardiff are pretty complex; I was glad I wasn't driving. The Cardiff airport is small. We checked in, walked by the Airport Police carrying assault rifles and wearing body armor, and got some breakfast. For breakfast I had a sort of breakfast sandwich with a sausage, hash browns, and bacon on it. It was good. Then we went through security and waited in the "Departures Area" where everyone waits until it's time to board your flight. At that time you walk to your gate.
We were on a Flybe flight to Paris, on a Bombardier Q400, a good-sized dual turbo prop plane. The flight to Charles de Gaulle airport was about an hour and uneventful. To get on the plane we walked outside and climbed up the stairs onto the plane. We got off the same way, so I can say I actually walked on French soil (tarmac, at least). France looked very green, from what little I could see.
Charles de Gaulle airport was pretty bad. It looked beautiful but was very confusing. There are no signs telling you where to go. We had to get to a different terminal via train but to get to the train we had to get down to the ground floor. To get to the ground floor we had to take an escalator up (the escalator was in a suspended tube through the middle of the building) and then find an elevator down. Maybe this makes sense to the French. There were a few information desks around but only one had anybody at it. In general the airport was pretty and had a lot of nice features but they need someone to go through and work on the flow issues. If there is one thing good about American airports, it's that they are efficient and user-friendly (of the 10 or so that I've been through), at least compared to Charles de Gaulle Airport. We found our gate and boarded the plane (after a long wait in line). Oh yeah, getting through security was very inefficient. The lines moved really slowly. I also was patted down after going through the metal detector even though I didn't set it off (the guard was patting down pretty much all of the males). I also noticed when we were on the train between terminals that there were a bunch of airport police in body armor in armored vehicles carrying assault rifles. I guess they like putting on a show of security. I've never seen men with assault rifles in U.S. airports.
We were on a Boeing 747 to Atlanta. We were up on the top story of the plane, which was really nice because it wasn't as crowded. It's hard to describe how large these planes are. The flight across was nice. I watched a few movies and rested some but didn't really sleep. We got to Atlanta at about 5 PM and got dinner. We had to wait until about 9:30 for our flight; so, there I was in Atlanta again. I guess 24 hours wasn't enough the previous week.
The trip was very enjoyable and wonderful in general. I learned a lot about brain imaging and processing brain MRIs so they are useful for statistical analysis. It was great to travel to a different country and spend some time there. Wales is beautiful and is rich with history.


Tuesday, June 17, 2008

King Benjamin's Speech

In Mosiah chapter 2, King Benjamin addresses his people for the last time as their prophet-king. As a missionary I ran across the following scripture that I thought was a semi-humorous way to start a talk, especially if you were nervous: "For even at this time, my whole frame doth tremble exceedingly while attempting to speak unto you" (Mosiah 2:30). It wasn't until fairly recently that it dawned on me what was going on.

King Benjamin had Parkinson's disease or something similar. Kings typically rule until they pass on. Prophets serve their whole lives. Yet, in verse 29 King Benjamin states, "I say unto you that I have caused that ye should assemble yourselves together, that I might declare unto you that I can no longer be your teacher, nor your king." He is unable to serve in those capacities any more. Then he says that as he attempts to speak unto the people his "whole frame doth tremble exceedingly." Now, maybe he was just old and frail and shook a lot because his body was weakened but to me it sounds like Parkinson's disease or maybe essential tremor. "But the Lord God doth support me, and hath suffered me that I should speak unto you" (Mosiah 2:30). The Lord gave him strength that he could stand and speak. It can be very hard to initiate and maintain speech for someone with Parkinson's disease due to the bradykinesia (slowed starting of movements).

Anyway, I could be wrong of course, and could just be reading in my clinical training but it's an interesting hypothesis. It makes sense that he would pass on his duties to a son if he was in that state.

Sunday, June 15, 2008

Weekly happenings

Anwyn started swimming lessons on Monday. She has been doing pretty well, and is getting more comfortable putting her face under the water. She was thrilled to be in a class with her best friend Leah.


There she goes!


It has rained every day since Tuesday. Big torrential downpours (we've had about 2.5 inches of rain since then), with terrific thunder and lightning.

Here is Anwyn playing with the umbrella in the rain.


Lily playing with the umbrella, not in the rain.


Jared turned 28 on Thursday. We had a nice dinner (chicken enchiladas, Spanish rice, lettuce salad), birthday cake, and watched a movie to celebrate.


The Birthday Boy


Baby of the Birthday Boy

Happy Father's Day

We are thankful for the wonderful father's in our life.

The girls helped me put together a cute card for their dad and their Grandpas. Here is one of the photos we used:

Lily kept trying to eat her sign, so she ended up with a binky in her mouth instead.


The primary children in our ward sang the song "Fathers" for a special number in sacrament meeting today. Anwyn sang a duet with another little girl for the first verse. Here are the words:

The Father of our home,
Leads our family.
With wisdom's light in all that's right,
My father's good to me.

Here is a video clip of her singing it at home:



She did such a good job singing, and it didn't bother her in the slightest to sing to a large room full of people.

Thursday, June 12, 2008

Happy Birthday to you...

Today we're celebrating Jared's birthday.

He started out as a cute baby.

Here he is at age four.

Here is his senior class picture.


And here is the man of the day (in a recent photo at Sea World).



Anwyn spent most of yesterday making and wrapping presents for her daddy. Tonight we'll celebrate with chicken enchiladas (served on the special blue plate for the birthday boy) and birthday cake. You're all invited to join the party!

Wednesday, June 11, 2008

Intimidating Squirrel

Out in the front of our condo complex there's a really large oak tree. It's right by the bus stop so I often stand underneath it and watch the squirrels run around. This morning there were 3 squirrels running up and down the tree. One kept clinging to the trunk of the tree and staring at me. Staring, I should say glaring. It looked like it was about to jump on me and attack me. Funny little squirrel. It looked like it was trying to intimidate me. Oh, so I acted all scared of it and begged for my life and the squirrel eventually left me alone, while I finished cowering underneath the bus stop bench. Actually, some of the squirrels around can be rather aggressive. I've had some scream at me - it's very funny to listen to.

The squirrel this morning reminded me of someone I talked with in clinic yesterday. He was fairly short, needed a transplant, and had served quite a few years in prison (I'm not saying the squirrel was like that). He kept trying to intimidate me (and my supervisor): "I wouldn't hurt myself but I could hurt you." Yeah, OK. Prison domination tactics don't work on me in my environment. I'm not a big guy by any means but I had 6 inches on this guy and he wasn't exactly in the best of health. He didn't really want to hurt us, he just had spent so many years in prison that he doesn't really know how to interact normally with people. He's the first anti-social person I've had to interview. I know why I don't want to ever work in a prison.

Ode to Joy

Today I finished listening to the CBC's Beethoven podcast. What an emotional experience! The podcasts are about his 9 symphonies and end, of course, on the 9th. The work is incredible. The last movement is call the "Ode to Joy." I was getting emotional just hearing the song explained. Beethoven was deaf at this point, of course. He was only a few years from death and had struggles with all sorts of things. His deafness had caused him to turn inward and exclude the world. This reminds me of something Helen Keller stated, to effect, "Being blind separates me from things. Being deaf separates me from people." However, through all of Beethoven's struggles he writes this song that is the pinnacle of his career in many ways; a revolutionary piece that is incredibly well-known world-wide. Beethoven is able to find joy and pass it on to others.

Many of the words of the chorus were written by Friedrich Schiller but Beethoven added his own too. Here is a selection of some of the words:

"Be embraced, you millions!
This kiss for the whole world!
Brothers, beyond the star-canopy
A loving Father must dwell.

Do you bow down, you millions?
Do you sense the Creator, world?
Seek Him beyond the star-canopy!
Beyond the stars must He dwell....

Joy, beautiful spark of the gods,
Daughter of Elysium,
Joy, beautiful spark of the gods"

Anyway, listening to the podcast was quite emotional for me. Beethoven wrote many powerful works and ended with the best.

Tuesday, June 10, 2008

Come ye, and let us go up to the mountain of the Lord

I'm posting my talk about temples from Sunday. This is a different type of post for our blog but I wanted to post it because the most important thing for me - and for my family - is the gospel of Jesus Christ and the restored church, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. The talk is quite long, just as a warning. I'm not saying the talk is fabulous or anything like that but I hope that it will be a help to someone who reads it (assuming someone actually reads it). It was a help to me to write the talk. Some of the talk is a bit personal, but the gospel is a personal gospel and blogging is a personal activity so the two should go together well. Without further adieu, here's the talk.

From the days of Adam, temples have always been important to the followers of God. In the ancient world, temples were often at the center of city life. This also is how some modern cities are designed. A good example of this in our day is Mesa Arizona. The temple is built on Main Street and very close to Center Street – right in the middle of the city. The city radiates out from that point. Salt Lake City is designed in the same way. Wherever the saints of God lived, they built temples. Moses was commanded to build a tabernacle – a portable temple. Solomon built a temple in Jerusalem that was alternately destroyed and rebuilt over the years. Shortly after Nephi and his family reached the Promised Land, they built a temple. Following the Restoration, the prophet Joseph was commanded to build a temple. The saints built one in Kirtland, Ohio (some of my ancestors were heavily involved in the building of that temple as well as others). The saints fled Ohio following persecutions - leaving behind the precious house of the Lord. Land was dedicated in Missouri for a temple. That structure has not yet been built. Once in Nauvoo, the saints built a temple, finishing it with a trowel in one hand and a wagon in the other as they fled the state to head to the Salt Lake Valley. The Nauvoo temple was dedicated before it was fully completed so some of the saints could receive their temple blessings before they had to cross the plains. I’m sure those blessings gave courage and strength to many who faced the grueling journey ahead. The Prophet Joseph stressed the importance of temples: "The main object [of gathering the Jews, or the people of God, in any age of the world] was to build unto the Lord a house whereby He could reveal unto His people the ordinances of His house and the glories of His kingdom, and teach the people the way of salvation; for there are certain ordinances and principles that, when they are taught and practiced, must be done in a place or house built for that purpose" (as cited in R. Millet, The Power of the Word, p. 218).

The prophet Isaiah saw in vision latter-day temples and the church members who attend them: "And it shall come to pass in the last days, when the mountain of the Lord's house shall be established in the top of the mountains, and shall be exalted above the hills, and all nations shall flow unto it. And many people shall go and say, Come ye, and let us go up to the mountain of the Lord, to the house of the God of Jacob; and he will teach us of his ways, and we will walk in his paths" (2 Ne. 12: 2-3).

In the last days - in our day - comes the clarion call to the temple. It is a call to learn the ways of God and to walk in the paths the Lord has marked. It is a call to one and all to visit the house of God as individuals and as families in order to receive the blessings of time and eternity. Why is the temple so important? A temple is the House of the Lord. It is the place where ordinances necessary for exaltation are performed. Temple ordinances weld generation to generation; husband to wife, mother to daughter, and sister to brother. A temple is a place of covenant - it is a house of holiness.

To be holy means to be dedicated, set-apart, or consecrated. When we are holy we consecrate all our lives and everything we have to the work of the Lord. The prophet Zechariah spoke about consecration: "In that day shall there be upon the bells of the horses, HOLINESS UNTO THE LORD...Yea, every pot in Jerusalem and in Judah shall be holiness unto the Lord of hosts" (Zechariah 14: 20-21). Zechariah envisioned the day when even the horses and dishes would be consecrated for the work of the Lord. Many of us do this in our lives - we drive our children and the children of others to church activities or we drive to our visiting or home teaching appointments; we also use our dishes to take food to those who are ill or in need. Those may seem like small matters, but that is the essence of consecration - it is using our means to serve and support others and further the work of the Lord.

Being holy also requires us to be clean. The prophet Ezekiel spoke of the cleansing that comes in the temple and through temple service: "Then will I sprinkle clean water upon you, and ye shall be clean: from all your filthiness, and from all your idols, will I cleanse you. A new heart also will I give you, and a new spirit will I put within you: and I will take away the stony heart out of your flesh, and I will give you an heart of flesh. And I will put my spirit within you, and cause you to walk in my statutes, and ye shall keep my judgments, and do them" (Ezekiel 36: 25-27). The Lord promised a new heart, a heart softened by the Spirit, to those who receive saving ordinances and keep His statutes. This new heart allows us to be better people: better saints, better citizens, better mothers, fathers, and friends. It is a new heart that beats warmly within our chests, filling us with love and charity for our friends, neighbors, and the entire world. The temple is a place where we learn to live as better people in this world while striving to remain spotless from the sins of the world; Elder Maxwell stated, "Temple work is not an escape from the world but a reinforcing of our need to better the world while preparing ourselves for another and far better world. Thus, being in the Lord's house can help us to be different from the world in order to make more difference in the world" (The Neal A. Maxwell Quote Book, p. 339). Inner change is not enough, we need to take that change and seek to bless others.

The Savior likened the gospel and the kingdom of heaven unto a pearl of great price, which a man sold all that he had in order to purchase (see Matt. 13: 45-46). The kingdom of heaven is something for which we need to be willing to give up everything. Hopefully, none of us view the gospel as a pearl of great pride instead of a pearl of great price. A pearl of great pride is something we hide away and don't share; we may have worked hard to obtain it and we want the world to know that. A pearl of great price is something that we give our all for and then share it with others so they too can experience the beauty and blessings of that pearl. That's what Elder Maxwell said about the temple - it's not a place that removes us from the world; it's a place that moves us to improve the world. The temple is not an exclusive club that keeps out the rabble (it's not a pearl of pride), it's an education center that gives us the opportunity to, as the BYU motto states, "Enter to learn, [and] go forth to serve;" the temple is a pearl of great price - something we should be willing to give our all for; it’s not just a one-time purchase but something that requires our whole lives. The price - the responsibility - of the temple is a life of willing sacrifice and service and of obedience and repentance.

The Savior used the pearl analogy again when he stated that we should not cast our pearls before swine - meaning that holy things are to remain sacred and pure. The same goes for our lives, if we are to be holy. Once we receive temple blessings we need to remain worthy of them and not drag them through the mud. When we become physically dirty or muddy we can wash ourselves and be clean. In a like manner, when we become spiritually dirty or muddy, when we sin and are become as lost sheep as Isaiah stated (see Isaiah 53: 6), then there is a way prepared for us to become clean again. "All we like sheep have gone astray" (Isa. 53: 6) but the Good Shepherd, who is also the Lamb of God, prepared the way for us to return to the fold; indeed, He leaves the ninety-nine to search for the one who has wandered and who seeks forgiveness. The light of repentance disperses the darkness of sin.

The Lord promises great blessings to those who return unto him. During the dedicatory prayer of the Kirtland Temple, Joseph Smith pleaded: "And when thy people transgress, any of them, they may speedily repent and return unto thee, and find favor in thy sight, and be restored to the blessings which thou hast ordained to be poured out upon those who shall reverence thee in thy house. And we ask thee, Holy Father, that thy servants may go forth from this house armed with thy power, and that thy name may be upon them, and thy glory be round about them, and thine angels have charge over them; And from this place they may bear exceedingly great and glorious tidings, in truth, unto the ends of the earth, that they may know that this is thy work, and that thou hast put forth thy hand, to fulfill that which thou hast spoken by the mouths of the prophets, concerning the last days." (D&C 109: 21-23; emphasis added). If we have transgressed, if we have strayed, we need to repent; when we repent, the blessings of heaven shall be poured out upon us, which blessings will also help wash away our imperfections. Let me repeat some of the blessings promised unto us by the Lord as we remain faithful to temple covenants: we shall be armed with power - power to do the Lord's work and power to resist temptation; we shall have God's name upon us; the glory of the Lord will be round about us - His image will shine in our countenances and he shall be as a pillar of cloud and of fire unto us; and angels will have charge over us, providing strength and comfort. All are powerful blessings. When we receive these blessings I think it is important to remember the words of the Prophet Joseph; he prayed that the saints would go forth from the temple unto the ends of the earth bearing great and glorious tidings. Again, the call is to welcome all people to become worthy to enter the temple. We have a responsibility to share our precious pearl and call to others, "Come ye, and let us go up to the mountain of the Lord."

That is a call I’d like to extend to the youth of our ward. The temple is a place of beauty and blessing. You Young Women and Young Men are able to go perform baptisms for the dead, which many of you recently did. Performing baptisms for the dead was always a special experience for me as a youth. I remember the peace I felt sitting in the waiting room. I remember the spirit I felt as I was baptized on behalf of others; I hoped that they accepted the work I was doing for them. I strived to remain worthy to enter the temple of the Lord – I certainly had (and have) my faults and sins but I tried to live the gospel. Living the gospel – keeping the commandments and remaining true to your baptismal (and priesthood, for you young men) covenants can be difficult at times. Pres. Monson, our beloved prophet, stated at this past General Conference, “[You] youth…in particular, face temptations we can scarcely comprehend. The adversary and his hosts seem to be working nonstop to cause [your] downfall. We are waging a war with sin…but we need not despair. It is a war we can and will win” (Ensign, May 2008, p. 90).

You youth are in the midst of a war for your souls. On one side is Satan and his followers; on the other is the Lord and His followers. You choose which side to fight for. There will be casualties along the way but we know which side wins in the end. Just as Helaman’s army suffered no losses, with faith and righteousness you can survive the battle and not be counted among the casualties. You might be wounded and suffer blood loss but those are wounds that can be cleansed and healed at the fountain of living waters. Satan will try his utmost to keep you from attending the temple. He will try all sorts of feints and tactics. He will try to get you to lower your guard and remove your armor but you must remain strong and ready. You have inspired parents, leaders, and friends who can help you remain strong and faithful and who can help prepare you to enter the temple and receive its blessings.

One of the defining moments in my life was when I was able to attend the temple and receive my own endowment. That’s a day I will never forget – it has eternal significance for me and for my family. I urge you youth to ponder about the importance of the temple and prepare yourselves to enter its doors. Strive with all your energy to keep the Spirit with you in all you do. It will provide the strength and peace needed to face and overcome the temptations of the adversary.

The small and simple actions of prayer and reading the scriptures provide great strength. "By small and simple things are great things brought to pass" (Alma 37: 6). Reading your scriptures and praying regularly will help you fight temptations and stand victorious. You are very busy now but life only becomes more hectic as you get older; if these things are not priorities in your lives now it can be hard to make them priorities later.

My family recently experienced a number of events that brought to our minds the importance of temples and of the sealing of families together for eternity. At the beginning of May my family and I attended the funeral of my grandmother Beverly. Her spirit slipped out of her mortal frame into the eternal realm and her body was laid in the ground. Her passing was not unexpected but the pain of separation for us was acute. That event was followed by ones of great joy. The day after the funeral my brother was sealed for time and all eternity in the House of the Lord. Two lives were joined as one by the priesthood of God in the holy temple. A few days later my sister had a baby who came from God, "trailing clouds of glory" (W. Wordsworth, Ode: Intimations of Immortality) to join a family who had been sealed together in the temple. Lastly, just yesterday, my family had the funeral for my grandmother Maxine, who passed away last week. Her death was also not unexpected but again, the pain of separation was acute. Within the space of just over one month my family experienced a death, a marriage, birth, and another death. It's as if the Plan of Salvation was compressed into one month for my family.

At times such as these our minds often turn to eternal matters as we experience these emotions of sadness and joy. Two of these recent events were sad because they involved separation from loved ones; they were events signaling the end of mortal life. However, through the blessings of the temple, these separations are only temporary. My grandmothers merely passed from one stage of their existence into another through the door of death. While there is sorrow on our part, there is also joy knowing that they are reunited with other loved ones who have gone on before. We are also strengthened by the knowledge that at some point in the future we will all be reunited as families. The other two recent family events brought joy unto us; they signaled the start of new life and lives. I'm grateful for the knowledge and blessings of eternal families - this is the greatest blessing of the temple.

Monday, June 9, 2008

Church Speaking

Okay, so yesterday I gave a talk in sacrament meeting. It's a bit of a story about how I ended up speaking on a High Council Sunday. I was recently talking with our bishop, which is usually a dangerous prospect for anyone. Often the best thing to do is not make eye-contact and just go about your business - you know, kind of like a cat where you try to ignore the world around you: "If I can't see you, you can't see me." It's usually an effective way of avoiding speaking in church. Of course, that's not advice I generally follow (or recommend); I have the bad habit of saying things like, "I enjoy speaking in church. I'll fill in any time" (which statement is true).

Doing things like that also can result in multiple callings [When you move into a ward and meet with your bishop and say something like: "By the way bishop, I play the piano and organ" what calling do you think ensues? If you're thinking, "Well, obviously a music calling" you'd be wrong. A calling with the Young Men. Well, that was the first one but I did also get called to organist and choir pianist and random oh-Jared-can-you-play-for-this-function (so your music calling thought wasn't wrong in the end)? (I gladly do all callings)]. Anyway, so I had been talking with our bishop for a bit during church last Sunday and that night I receive a call from the Stake President (who happens to be in our ward). My first thought was, "There's no Priesthood Leadership meeting coming up, is there? I'm not getting a stake calling am I? What other meeting do they need me to play the piano or organ for?" Then I hear the words, "Would you like to speak in church this Sunday? [Much relief felt on my part - it's just a talk] It's the high council Sunday but the patriarch is actually speaking instead of a high councilor and we need someone to fill in for the companion speaker. I spoke with the bishop to see if he had any recommendations for a speaker and he gave me your name." As I said, it can be hazardous to speak with your bishop, unless you like speaking in church and enjoy having numerous callings (the bishop even - jokingly - asked if I wanted more callings).

Sunday, June 8, 2008

Summertime Fun

Summertime is in full-swing in Florida. We are surviving the heat by immersing ourselves in water whenever possible. Our weekly moms and kids playgroup has switched from playgrounds to pools for the duration of the summer.

Here is Lily and me, ready to swim.

Anwyn and her friend Leah jumping through the sprinklers on the trampoline.

Completed Bathroom!

Well, the 1/2-way ambitious project is nearly complete after a big day of work yesterday (the 1/2-way ambitious project is referencing something my mom said when I told her I was redoing the bathroom; namely, "That sounds ambitious." Since it's only a 1/2 bath, I figured it's only 1/2-way ambitious). It was quite a bit of work. I laid the new tiles down on Friday night then grouted them about mid-day Saturday. I touched up a few places on the wall with paint and then started on the baseboards. We had a mitering saw we borrowed from a friend, which made the baseboard part much easier.

The baseboards are nearly 4" tall in order to cover some damaged wall near the bottom. Plus the baseboards sit on the floor beneath the level of the tile and need to be tall to cover the bottom of the wall. I would have preferred to have them just go on top of the tile but when the tile was put in whoever put it in didn't remove the baseboard and just tiled up to it; so there was a bit of a gap. Anyway, I put the new baseboard in and caulked around it to fill in gaps. It turned out pretty well. I put the new toilet in once things were dry and after I made another run to Lowe's for more supplies. I put the new vanity together (the box said it was "fully assembled" but I couldn't help thinking "I don't think that word ["fully"] means what you think it means" as I put it together). The vanity was actually sort of put-together, all I had to do was attach the legs, screw it to the wall, add the door knobs, then place the sink on top. I was surprised that the sink top didn't attach down to the base at all but the base is in place and the faucet and pipes will help hold the top in place.

Next I installed the faucet and got almost everything hooked up. The drainage pipes are not all put together because I reached that point at about 10:30 last night and decided I was done for the day. We think the bathroom looks nice. There certainly is more room in it without the monstrosity of the old sink and vanity. Tomorrow I will finish up the bathroom, except for the wall hardware (towel holder, toilet paper holder, and a shelf). It's been an educational project. We are grateful to have more room (and a much better-looking room) in our bathroom.

Before


After

Blueberry Picking

Anwyn and I (Kristi) had a fun outing on Friday. We went to a local farm to pick blueberries!

It was really hot, but the berries were very tasty.

We picked for quite awhile and ended up with 3 lbs of blueberries.


It was so nice to be away from the noisy city that I think I must still be a country girl at heart. With the bucket slung over my shoulder, I was reminded of berry picking days long past. When I was a little girl my Grandma Grant would tie a bucket around my waist so my cousins and I could pick raspberries from their garden. I love fruits and veggies fresh from the garden. Someday I'll grow my own!

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Saturday, June 7, 2008

Momentous Day (well, if you're a bit of a computer geek)!

I just had to post about this. I'm not particularly old by any means but I now have a computer with more RAM than the first computer I personally purchased had in hard drive space. I stuck 4 GB of RAM in our laptop; my first computer (a Motorola-made Mac clone purchased back in 1997 or 1998) had a 3.2 GB hard drive, which wasn't too shabby for the day. Of course, now you can purchase a 1 TB hard drive for as low as $150 and many desktop computers come with 500 GB hard drives. I grew up using computers with much smaller hard drives than 3.2 GB but they were never ones I had purchased myself. Anyway, I thought this was pretty cool.

Here's the cute little computer with 4 GB of RAM.

Thursday, June 5, 2008

Food Faces

One of the blogs I visit has started posting story time ideas and crafts that correspond. You can see her ideas here. Anwyn and I had a great time with this book:


Our first creation was supposed to be a giraffe. Admittedly, in some lights it closely resembles an armadillo.


Here are the finished products. My favorite was the turtle (lime head inside a cantaloupe body).


We're looking forward to more story time crafts!

Monday, June 2, 2008

A wall-smashing time

On Saturday I went to town on the bathroom. The ride was pretty uncomfortable but town was nice. We had these ugly ceramic toilet paper and towel holders that we wanted to get rid of. I couldn't see how they were attached to the wall so I figured they were glued on or something similar to that. I found out they were actually built into the drywall. Crazy home builders! I donned protective eye-wear, ear protection, and closed the door to the bathroom. In my right hand I hefted an average hammer. With exceeding force I started smashing the ceramic holders. Shrapnel-like shards were flying everywhere. One hit my leg, which started to bleed. Oblivious to the pain I pressed on with my work as blood trickled down my leg. Soon there was nothing left but three gaping holes in the wall. As I said, crazy home builders! After I cleaned everything up and received 17 stitches (just kidding, it was just a little cut but it did bleed quite a bit), I went to Lowe's to buy drywall and other patching materials to fix the walls. I also purchased the toilet and vanity (as posted about on Saturday). I patched the holes and applied plaster. After letting it dry I sanded it and filled in holes.

After a nice Sunday break today we continued the saga of the bathroom remodel. I pulled off the baseboards in the bathroom so we can replace them. In addition to tiling the last bit of the room we needed to add more baseboard and we thought it would be easier just to replace it all instead of trying to match what was already there. It's going to be a pain to get them just the right size since we don't have a mitering saw but we'll either borrow one from a friend or have the new baseboard cut at Lowe's. Every time I've measured for the baseboard I've come up with different numbers (okay, that's not strictly true - just sometimes). We had a plumber come look at a leak - it was an easy fix.

Today I primed the walls after finishing up the last bit of plastering and sanding of the lovely holes that were left in the wall from the hideous ceramic toilet paper and towel holders. Then we painted the walls a nice shade of blue (with a hint of gray). We got the paint from some friends in our ward. It will be a nice change from the yellow that was there before. The yellow was nice but since we're redoing the bathroom we decided to really redo it. The next step is laying the tile and affixing the new baseboards (which we have yet to purchase). After that we can grout the tile (we'll grout before we put the baseboards on) and then put in the new toilet and vanity. Hopefully everything fits in well and looks good.

The old towel holder. Sorry for the weird color - the bathroom wasn't really that color.


My handiwork.


The lovely hole.


Patched walls (still needing sanding).


The new wall color - this looks a little more gray than it appears in real life.