Thursday, August 14, 2008

Protecting Marriage

My father sent the link to this excellent article on the LDS Church newsroom site about the upcoming votes in California, Arizona, and Florida for constitutional amendments protecting marriage.


It is one of the best articles I've read about the subject of marriage and protecting marriage. I think it's important to take time to read and understand the article and if you are living in one of the states where a marriage amendment is up for vote, to go and vote. Here is one of my favorite paragraphs:

"When a man and a woman marry with the intention of forming a new family, their success in that endeavor depends on their willingness to renounce the single-minded pursuit of self-fulfillment and to sacrifice their time and means to the nurturing and rearing of their children. Marriage is fundamentally an unselfish act: legally protected because only a male and female together can create new life, and because the rearing of children requires a life-long commitment, which marriage is intended to provide. Societal recognition of same-sex marriage cannot be justified simply on the grounds that it provides self-fulfillment to its partners, for it is not the purpose of government to provide legal protection to every possible way in which individuals may pursue fulfillment."

Near the beginning of the article the author(s) wrote the following about the need for understanding and civility while standing firm and not condoning certain lifestyles and actions:

"The focus of the Church’s involvement is specifically same-sex marriage and its consequences. The Church does not object to rights (already established in California) regarding hospitalization and medical care, fair housing and employment rights, or probate rights, so long as these do not infringe on the integrity of the family or the constitutional rights of churches and their adherents to administer and practice their religion free from government interference.

The Church has a single, undeviating standard of sexual morality: intimate relations are proper only between a husband and a wife united in the bonds of matrimony. The Church’s opposition to same-sex marriage neither constitutes nor condones any kind of hostility towards homosexual men and women. Protecting marriage between a man and a woman does not affect Church members’ Christian obligations of love, kindness and humanity toward all people.

As Church members decide their own appropriate level of involvement in protecting marriage between a man and a woman, they should approach this issue with respect for others, understanding, honesty, and civility."

1 comment:

Tiffany said...

I enjoyed it as well--quite an amazing article. It makes you grateful for prophets, doesn't it?